Grow up, show up and create the relationship you want.
You’re not alone: Relationships trigger the unhealed parts of ourselves.
Relationships demand that we rise to the challenge and become better men. Our programs were developed to help you do exactly that.
Most men have not been given the tools to navigate relationships successfully. Reading books isn’t going to cut it and video tutorials will only get you so far. Expert guidance will help you understand why you shut down, get defensive, go numb and end up alienating your partner.
We will help you get to the root of the matter.
Take the first step.
Learn the Four Hard Truths That Will Transform Your Relationship.
The truth is…
We know that relationship skills can be built. And we’re here to help you do it.
You build habits all the time. You have practices for your business, your crossfit mobility and your nutrition. Now, it’s time for you to build healthy habits for your relationships.
By investing your energy in your own abilities, you’ll get tactical tools to use when you’re struggling.
In our programs, you’ll have a safe space to effectively practice conflict skills in action. We have helped hundreds of men save their marriages and deepen their relationships.
Learn from highly trained therapists who are deeply engaged in men’s work.
Work with us, and together we will:
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Unpack
Deconstruct and unpack your held ideas about masculinity, creating possibility for more authentic connection.
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Shift
Dramatically shift the way you show up in your life and interpersonal relationships.
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Strengthen
Improve your mental and emotional resilience so that you can navigate difficult moments without pulling away or getting defensive.
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Connect
Build a lasting, meaningful connection with your partner. Learn to support and allow yourself to be supported.
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Align
Align your personal and professional life, creating a more balanced existence.
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Solve
Solve your relationship problems once and for all without abandoning it, shutting down, or searching elsewhere.
Meet your Guides
Ryan ginn and LUKE adler
We are skilled experts at creating space for you to share your challenges safely. Our ultimate goal is to create a world of empowered men who are capable of being in healthy, thriving relationships.
We’re Luke and Ryan, and together we created Tough Love for Men. Between us, we have over 20 years of experience coaching men through the trials and tribulations of marriage, helping them overcome obstacles they once thought were impossible.
Our approach is tough love, but not the kind that tells you to suppress your feelings.
We call you in, hold you accountable, and guide you to face your challenges head-on. Because we know that with the support of a powerful group of men on the same journey, you can achieve far more in your marriage than you could alone.
Check out our podcast,
Tough Love for Men
In each episode, we discuss strategies for men to improve their relationship skills. Tune in now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or wherever you listen.
Access the Four Hard Truths That Will Transform Your Relationship. It’s Time…
“Luke and Ryan created the perfect program to help me overcome my triggered, angry outbursts. I credit them with saving my marriage.”
— Cole F.